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Hardship Can Produce Harm
In Why We Suffer, we talked a lot about the good that hardship can produce in us. Indeed, this truth was evident in each of the stories we looked at in that series. However, when we look around us, the stories we hear don’t always have that same conclusion. In fact, more often than not we see the opposite. It often seems that hardship causes harm rather than good. Whether it’s poverty, abuse, or disability, these adversities seem to correlate with more challenges and negative outcomes later in life.
And yet, there are inspiring stories of individuals who have overcome adversity. In our series on His Love in Suffering, we saw several stories like this where God produced immeasurable good for people out of the hardship that they faced. Are these just random examples or is there something we can learn to overcome the adversity and trauma that we have faced in our own life. In that series we saw the good that suffering can produce in us and for us. What can we do to receive that benefit, to receive that good and overcome the adversity?
Before we answer that question, let’s start with something more foundational. What is good? More specifically, what is the good that God desires for us? What does it look like?
Defining Good
When God brought the people of Israel out of Egypt, they often didn’t feel like He was working good for them. When they got to the Red Sea, Pharaoh’s army began to approach, and they were very afraid. They complained to Moses (it almost sounds like they’re heckling him):
Exodus 14:11-12
Why did God take them to the Red Sea? He knew Pharaoh’s army would come. Why take His people to such an impassable obstacle? He did it so He could make His power known to them, because of the faith it would build in them. After He parted the Red Sea and they went through, it says this:
Exodus 14:31
This display of His power not only built their faith, but also their confidence in relying on Him. They knew their God was stronger than their enemies; they knew that their enemies would be filled with fear.
Exodus 15:15-16
Just like the Israelites, God doesn’t lead us down the easy road but sometimes brings us to face impassable obstacles so that He can demonstrate His power and build our faith. He instills courage so that we confidently rely on Him when it feels that there is no way out.
So, we know the kind of good that God is working to produce in us out of hardship, a good that has eternal value. But, like we said in the beginning, hardship does not always produce this good. Let’s talk about why that is and what we can do to receive the good that God has for us in adversity.
God’s Promise
We have confidence that our own suffering can produce good in our lives. This confidence comes with the most certain of all guarantees – God’s guarantee. God has promised that He works all things together for our good (Romans 8:28). But, if we have this promise, then why does it seem that this isn’t always the case? Why do we see so many people harmed by the hardship they’ve endured?
When we take a closer look at His promise, we find that it’s not given to everyone. Romans 8:28 says, “God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God”. In other words, this promise has a condition. In order to receive the promise, we must love God. At first glance, that sounds a little harsh. It almost sounds as if God is unwilling to work things for our good if we don’t love Him. However, we know God desires good for us even when we don’t love Him. The cross demonstrates just how far He will go for us even when we do not love Him:
God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.
Romans 5:8
Accessing God’s Promise
So, why is this promise given only to “those who love God”? Hebrews 12:11 illuminates the answer by explaining the way that God produces good for us through hardship:
Hebrews 12:11 (emphasis added)
Like we said in Why We Suffer, that word ‘discipline’ can partly be understood as describing how God works good for us in adversity by training us in it. So, if we don’t receive God’s instruction and training when we face hardship, then we are unable to receive the good that pain can produce. If we do not love God then we will not receive His training. In other words, if we are not among “those who love God” in Romans then we are not able to be among “those who have been trained” in Hebrews.
This promise to work suffering for our good is given “to those who love God”. However, this is not because He is unwilling to work for our good when we don’t love Him. Instead, it’s because we are unable to receive that good unless we love Him.
In the next post I want to make this very applicable and practical for us. Let’s get specific on what things prevent us from receiving the good that God has for us in suffering. What keeps us from overcoming adversity? Be sure to subscribe, you won’t want to miss it!
Amen to the things you are pointing out here. You are bringing important considerations to light and when I look at harm done but know that when God is able to establish us in our Love for Him He will be able to also establish us in the good He can bring out of that harm suffered. And that really makes me thankful💕